NZ Dating

So I woke up one day in 2015 and decided that I would give up drinking as it had been at the centre of every bad decision I had made and caused me to shag so many women that I had not been able to see through the alcoholic tainted glasses that they were actually not a good match and some ending in miserable drama in my life and theirs too. So after three and a half years of sobriety and things were on the mend I thought I would give the dating thing a go and joined up on NZdating. I quite fancy English women so was attracted to one and the normal stuff happened, messages, skype, and nek minute a date was arranged. She was coming up my way and booked into a motor camp and I drove to meet her there to take her out for dinner. I arrived at the Camp and as she came out to greet me I was a bit taken back as she did not appear physically the way her pics looked and although her face was quite round on Skype I was still happy to date her as, to be honest size is not an issue for me as I quite like chunky girls but I struggle to become sexually aroused when it comes to obesity. I went into the cabin and was a bit taken aback that when showing me the bedroom she told me she had sleep apnoea and the mask thing beside the bed was for her to breathe in to sleep. I had never heard of this condition before but the thoughts of it were not great. We jumped in Well I jumped in she sort of half rolled in my car which was quite low to the ground so this shocked me a bit as I would have thought it would have made it easier but her exit of the car seemed even worse. We went into the pubs restaurant/bar thing and ordered food but whilst sitting there I could feel something was just not right. As I looked into her eyes things just became very dark and at that point thank god for giving up drinking, I made my mind up that this was not going anywhere and I had to escape. I was polite, paid for the meal, took her back to her Cabin and mask, and drove home. So about four years went by and the message board I was on (back on now) had banned me so I thought I would come back here for the boards as I spend a lot of time at home alone and it is a great way to have a laugh and have some human interaction. Boom the first face I recognize is hers. So instead of just posting I watched and the more I watched and observed the more nasty she became. I teamed up with another intelligent young woman that she was being horrible to that was fighting back and before I knew it I could see there was a team of them all pack attacking other boarders and the significant thing was they were also pack reporting all hiding under the personas of good kind caring humans when in fact they were old lonely bitter jealous nasty hateful and predominantly fat. I could not help myself and would post spewing emotes and say she was fat and revolting etc. Then I thought I was making friends and amends with another boarder and made them a contact and they screenshot my pic and showed it to this huge nasty woman, then when another boarder called me by my first name I knew she had shared my personal information, this was later confirmed. I secretly put her names up in response just to let her know that if you want to go down that road two can play her game but alas she made it knowledge to everyone. So in the end I decided to leave and move on which is very sad as NZdating message boards have some really lovely women and men but I just felt it was better for my mind heart and sole to delete. The place would be awesome without them, that's the story from me.