I can still see

You're choice if you want to read 'crap'....

But just remember, whatever 'crap' it is, what has been typed by somebody they may have that felt it was important to them at that point in time....Posters have so many reasons why they post the way they do, most of the time it really has nothing to do with the others on the boards, but how they are feeling in their own lives, and yup I was one of those.....
I was at home, not working, and although I was raising my wee one I felt isolated as i didn't socialize much due to trying to cope with a toddler and my son who had still been having issues after his father died, the boards were my 'escape' from the mundane and frustrations....
I treated a few people badly and got treated badly also, so have learnt my lesson about trying to make myself feel better by trying to make a stranger on the net feel bad....I had no right to do this and no body else does either...HOWEVER we have no right to tell others how to post, all we can do is make our own choices and not get pulled into their behaviours and problems if we don't want to.

Over the years I came to realise that just like me, everyone else was uses the boards as an escape for something, however small or big, it's important to them....

However, I still think it odd that a couple of posters elsewhere are still 'gunning' at me after all these years, but at the end of the day, that's their choice to do this, their choice to hold on to those nasty feelings, which is a little sad, but it's not my problem and I cannot make them feel better, they have to do that on their own....